Sean “Diddy” Combs hosted exclusive “Freak Off” sex parties that allegedly demanded strict adherence to a particular standard of beauty and behavior. Reports reveal unsettling details about such gatherings, including claims that a former party planner kept a scale in her car to ensure that no female guest weighed more than 140 pounds.
“We would do a weigh-in, if necessary,” she told The New York Post. “The girls had to be young and hot, so I always had a scale nearby in case I needed to make sure.”
The planner outlined additional stipulations imposed by Diddy: “No flab, no cellulite. Not overly pierced or tattooed. No short hair. And the girls had to be young and hot.” The dress code was equally restrictive: “No pants. No jeans. No flat shoes. Every girl had to wear a party dress, preferably very short, just enough to cover her butt cheeks, but no longer than mid-thigh. Cleavage showing. And every single one of them had to be wearing stilettos. That one, there was no exception: high stilettos.”
The organizers reportedly did not inquire about the ages of the women. “It was don’t ask, don’t tell,” the planner explained, noting her own youth at the time. “I honestly thought that we weren’t asking their age because of drinking laws.” Distancing herself from the more explicit expectations of the events, she stated, “I never stayed around for the Freak Offs and had no idea that these girls were expected to have sex with people.”
A second source, a dancer who performed at a 2005 afterparty, recounted receiving $250 for her performance, with an additional $1,000 offered to attend Diddy’s residence afterward. “It felt shady,” she said, recalling her reluctance at just 20 years old. “But other girls did, and then really wouldn’t talk about what happened there.”
The New York Post has reviewed videos that purportedly depict women engaged in sexual acts at these gatherings, often with Diddy present. In one instance, he appears to film himself while participating in the action.
The latest allegations align with previous claims against Diddy, including a lawsuit where a woman alleges that he and a female celebrity raped her when she was 13 after the 2000 VMAs. Attorney Tony Buzbee has indicated that new accusers, some as young as nine at the time of their alleged abuse, are preparing to sue Diddy for sexual exploitation.
Diddy has consistently denied wrongdoing. His attorneys issued a statement asserting, “In court, the truth will prevail: that Mr. Combs has never sexually assaulted anyone—adult or minor, man or woman.”
Federal authorities conducted raids on two of Diddy’s homes in March, reportedly seizing hundreds of sex videos and a large amount of sexual paraphernalia, including over 1,000 bottles of baby oil and lubricant. The U.S. Attorney’s Office alleges that the events were not always consensual and included coercive elements.
The legal documents describe these “Freak Offs” as “elaborate sex performances that he arranged, directed, and often electronically recorded.” It is claimed that Combs utilized violence and intimidation, exerting control over victims through financial means and threats.
Diddy now faces serious charges, including racketeering conspiracy, sex trafficking, and facilitating prostitution. He has pleaded not guilty, maintaining that the encounters at his parties were consensual.